Confirmation Program

I am eager to support you, your teen, and your family. Please let me know if you have any questions about our Youth Ministry program or if there is any way I can assist or pray for you.

Pam Lynch
Director of Youth and Young Adult Ministry

Reminder: On Wednesday we offer Adoration in the Church from 7 to 8 p.m All ages are welcome to join us for ADORE!

Register today for the 2019-2020 Confirmation Program!

Download the 2019-20 First Year Registration forms

Download the 2019-20 Second Year Registration forms

Please complete and sign these registration forms and return to St. Francis de Sales Ministry as soon as possible and no later than August 2, 2019.

Second year registration includes a retreat preference. Retreats are filled on a first-come, first-served basis.

The Confirmation Program at St. Francis de Sales Parish is a two-year formation process that typically begins during the teen’s freshman year in high school.

We will introduce topics and content through videos and through presentations by speakers and we will focus on inviting teens to participate in honest and open discussion. 

Some of our discussions include: Why am I here? What makes me happy? What’s your story God? How do I know God is real? Who is Jesus? 

Ultimately we desire to help each person know Jesus and find new ways that He is relevant to your everyday life. When we discover who Jesus is, we are better able to have a real relationship with Him. 

We want each person to know: God created you, He loves you, He will never ignore or forget you and He desires that you know He is with you always. How we respond to God’s love is our choice. When we choose to allow God into our lives we can be more truly joyful and our lives and our families can be revitalized.

Please note that the session times have been changed for this upcoming year. 

Teens will gather at the Ministry Center at 3:00 p.m. on Sundays. 

The teens will then walk over to the Church before Mass and will be dismissed after Mass. We do expect and encourage the parents to join us at these 5 p.m. Masses, which will be specifically planned for the teens and the recent topics of discussion.

Parent Involvement:

Every parent is extremely important to their teen. Our mission extends beyond the teen to your family. We desire to help you and your whole family grow and deepen your relationship with Jesus. When we share our faith with each other we can see and know Jesus in new ways. 

Parent Night:

All parents need to join us for an important opportunity to gather together as we all grow on our spiritual journey and help guide our teens on their journey. 

  • 1st year parents will gather in the Church on Tuesday, September 10 from 7 to 8:15 p.m. or Thursday, September 12 from 7 to 8:15 p.m.

  • 2nd year parents will gather in the Church on Tuesday, September 3 from 7 to 8:15 p.m. or Thursday, September 5 from 7 to 8:15 p.m.

1st Year Confirmation (freshmen)

  • Teens will be placed in small groups and will journey through the two years together. The teens will meet in small groups from 3:00 to 4:45 p.m. and then attend Sunday Mass from 5 to 6:15 p.m. Parents are expected to attend this Mass.

  • Retreat Experience - The teens will attend Holy Fire Event hosted by the Archdiocese of Chicago on Saturday, October 19th. This event will include dynamic speakers and great music and is designed to engage with teens in relevant and powerful ways.

1st Year Small Group Sessions: 

  • September 29, 2019 

  • October 13, 2019 

  • October 19, 2019 (Holy Fire Retreat Day) 

  • October 27, 2019 

  • November 17, 2019 

  • December 8, 2019 

  • January 26, 2020 

  • February 9, 2020 

  • March 8, 2020 

  • April 19, 2020                     

*Permission forms for the 1st year Holy Fire retreat day will be distributed at a later date. There will be a $60 fee for this event.  

 2nd Year Confirmation (sophomores)

  • The teens will meet in small groups from 3:00 to 4:45 p.m. and then attend Sunday Mass from 5 to 6:15 p.m. Parents are expected to attend this Mass. 

  • Retreat Experience - The teens will attend an engaging retreat which is led by high school juniors and seniors. Our "Castle" retreat is often a catalyst for teens to desire to grow in a relationship with Jesus and to deepen their faith. This retreat is an interactive and fun way for your teen to see where Jesus is relevant in their life and to grow in their relationship with Jesus. During our retreats, many of the high school leaders share witness talks and the teens participate in games, prayer and personal reflection, small group discussion, and large group activities. The weekend concludes with Mass at St. Francis de Sales. Please submit your retreat choice on the form included above.

    2nd Year Small Group Sessions: 

  • September 15, 2019 

  • October 6, 2019 

  • November 3, 2019 

  • December 1, 2019 

  • January 12, 2020 

  • February 2, 2020 

  • February 23, 2020 

  • March 15, 2020 

  • April 5, 2020 

  • Saturday, April 18, 2019 (Confirmation Day).  


The Confirmation program will begin with small group discussion and will conclude with a Teen Mass. Throughout the two year program we will work to help the teens encounter Jesus in the Mass and help them to be led to a fully conscious and active participation in liturgical celebrations. This will involve a heart as well as a head knowledge of Jesus Christ and His Church. 

Teens are also encouraged to serve the Mass in a variety of ways including as altar servers, ushers, musicians and vocalists. They may also choose to be trained as Lectors and Extraordinary Ministers of the Eucharist. At Mass, teens, their families, and other parishioners experience the depth of God’s love through the Word, the Eucharist and the community. Quality music and preaching that is geared towards the teens help the Mass come alive. We encourage families and all parishioners to join us in worship. 

Choosing a Confirmation Name

As a candidate for the celebration of the Sacrament of Confirmation, you must pick a saint's name to be placed after your present middle name and before your last name. The saint's name you choose symbolizes a new beginning in your faith life as well as a connection with that particular saint. For more information about choosing a name, please download our Choosing a Confirmation Name Resource Page. For a list of websites that may help you decide on a name, please visit our Youth Ministry Resources page.

Download our Teen Rosary and Reflections CD! Praying the Rosary is a powerful and inspirational Catholic tradition. The CD includes prayerful reflections written and inspired by teens in the St. Francis de Sales Confirmation program. To download the CD, click here.


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